That's one way of looking at it. Another way of looking at it is that society treats the two scenarios differently because they are in fact different; and only the false religion of "equality of the sexes" expects us to threat the two scenarios the same.
I don't know what the law should do, but I also don't think we should ignore a revealed preference when it shows itself.
Undoubtedly some male cucks will say that this boy is "lucky" for being raped.
Male rape victims are just constantly shit on by society.
That's one way of looking at it. Another way of looking at it is that society treats the two scenarios differently because they are in fact different; and only the false religion of "equality of the sexes" expects us to threat the two scenarios the same.
I don't know what the law should do, but I also don't think we should ignore a revealed preference when it shows itself.
They are only different if we accept the notion that adult women are less intelligent and capable as teenaged boys.