Antifa showed us how its done. We all thought the summer of love would backfire horribly on them, and it turned out the opposite.

That's because the left are operating off of power, and the right are operating off of principles. It didn't turn back on them because it unified the power-oriented left. It drove away many principled leftists, as it always does. (AKA useful idiots)

The right can't be wielded this way. They don't respond well to arguments from power, only from principle. As such, the right, naturally, end up in a defensive posture with the left attacking them. The difference is that the right has weakened it's personal defenses over the decades, and need to remoralize themselves in order to resist leftist aggression, by dismissing their arguments from power. This is why Civil Disobedience will work fine.

And to be clear, the left DID NOT effect ANY political change. The Leftists were being used as foot-soldiers of the establishment to create a counter-revolution, that would cull the Left. The establishment unified the Left by abusing them. The opposite will happen when they do it to the right.

We are not a counter-revolution. Violence in your aggression will actually get you nothing but the blowback you are currently seeing. The violence will unify the Left every time, and you'll lose that fight inevitably.

Instead, you have to undermine their arguments from power by de-legitimizing them, and rebuffing their attacks. Offensive violence will not win you anything because you are not the Left, and you are not the establishment.