I think you may have picked the absolute worst person to get advice from. Honestly, my relationship advice extends only to planning for a clean breakup, protecting assets and telling the guy to leave her.
I'll try my best, but honestly, don't take it from me. I only plan for overly negative and evil scenarios.
So, the first thing that immediately jumps out is that it's pretty sickening to even consider breaking up a long relationship over the phone. It's a pretty bad show of her character.
I agree the mother is the issue, but trying to break contact between them is an ill-fated plan.
I think the conspiracy excuse is just that, an excuse. It isn't actually part of the motive.
I agree the mother is the issue, but trying to break contact between them is an ill-fated plan.
I think the conspiracy excuse is just that, an excuse. It isn't actually part of the motive.
Definitely agree with both these lines. Shes very close with her mother (to the point of controlling) because her father left when she was 13 so her distrust of men comes from 2 angles, her relationship with her father and the overbearing nature of her feminist mother... the second was fine for the first 7 years, but since her mothers caught wind of my political leanings and internet activities I feel like a targeted enemy... hopefully its just my paranoia
I think you may have picked the absolute worst person to get advice from. Honestly, my relationship advice extends only to planning for a clean breakup, protecting assets and telling the guy to leave her.
I'll try my best, but honestly, don't take it from me. I only plan for overly negative and evil scenarios.
So, the first thing that immediately jumps out is that it's pretty sickening to even consider breaking up a long relationship over the phone. It's a pretty bad show of her character.
I agree the mother is the issue, but trying to break contact between them is an ill-fated plan.
I think the conspiracy excuse is just that, an excuse. It isn't actually part of the motive.
Definitely agree with both these lines. Shes very close with her mother (to the point of controlling) because her father left when she was 13 so her distrust of men comes from 2 angles, her relationship with her father and the overbearing nature of her feminist mother... the second was fine for the first 7 years, but since her mothers caught wind of my political leanings and internet activities I feel like a targeted enemy... hopefully its just my paranoia