What you've described is exactly why you should have a problem with the lifestyle, tbqh. Forced tolerance of widespread shitty behavior is bound to breed resentment.
I guess I should have said that conceptually I don’t really care if two adults suck each other off, as long as they leave the rest of us out of it. But the reality is that they are overt in all of their behavior and demand tolerance, so you are correct; I do take issue with this behavior.
What you've described is exactly why you should have a problem with the lifestyle, tbqh. Forced tolerance of widespread shitty behavior is bound to breed resentment.
I guess I should have said that conceptually I don’t really care if two adults suck each other off, as long as they leave the rest of us out of it. But the reality is that they are overt in all of their behavior and demand tolerance, so you are correct; I do take issue with this behavior.