Hate to say it, but things need to get bad enough for that to happen. South Korea has a growing movement of men who refuse to cave in to such things as you're describing, but that was a response to just how bad things have gotten there. We haven't reached that level yet.

There's a lot of history, attitudes and things that have been trained in men for a long time that will take a while to undo.

Plus you're trying to fight against the male libido, which is willing to do almost anything for the promise or even just a whiff of sex. It's basically a biological imperative for man to create offspring.