Even if they let the player go lesbian, you know the only options will be a series of fugly dykes.
I’m never playing a game that expects me to role-play as a woman who is actively seeking male (or ugly female) affection. That shit is absolutely tranny adjacent.
It's the same reason even many normies balked at Last of Us 2. Here, play as Joel's killer, and watch her/him get plowed, you being pegged by Naughty Dog by proxy.
If your audience is mostly dudes, stop trying to peg them. It's just grooming and with more steps.