You're half right.

They do want you looking at porn, but only for it's degeneracy

They want women to be objectified but not by the viewer, only by themselves.

They don't want hot chicks in games because they know the reason they were put into games in the first place was male gamers and male game developers objectifying women, not women objectifying themselves.

Which is why they're against hot chicks in games, but not against similar looking real life women going on only fans.

They want you having sex, but not procreating because sex is about lust and not about creating life. If you do get pregnant, they want you to abort it. If you don't abort it they want you to abandon it (at daycare, preschool, school) as many days as possible for as many hours as possible for as many years as possible.

Everything the left pushes is an inversion of whatever is natural or good. If they are pushing it, it's the worst extreme of bad, unnatural, or both.