I am moving for a promotion. Just a couple hours away, not a huge move. I am remaining in the same state, same relative distance from family. I am leaving the area but I will probably be back down the road. Might be back in six months to a year when my contract ends. Up to God not me. People are acting like it is the end, like I will never see them again. It's really not that far away... At least I don't think so.
For context, I live in WA. For our foreign posters WA State is about half the size of Germany and a third the size of France. Bigger than England but smaller than the sum total of the United Kingdom.
I drive a couple hours every other week to visit my family. Once upon a time a lot of my friends and family made similar drives to visit each other but this seems to have died post covid. Am I a modern outlier, or do people just not travel anymore? Even to visit friends or family? Is this just a byproduct of the Covid lockdown, increased expensiveness of America and anti social nature of this country (the Bowling Alone phenomenon)?
I used to drive from the Bremerton area to Spokane for college (EWU). I'd come home for winter and summer breaks. 314 miles one way, door to door.
Nice. I did the same thing when I lived in Boise.
The travel from Seattle to my family (~150 miles) was bad enough. I think with 314 I would give up.
It wasn't bad, I would leave for fall semester, and come home for christmas, then go back for winter and spring. 3-4 times a year.