That does nothing for me, I don't like traveling and I am not interested in having casual intercourse with unknown women in Indonesia if that's what you mean with have a good time, even less so when all of these countries are in hot parts of the world because I hate warm weather.

The average Western man can deal with overseas women without being treated like a subhuman.

You think it's because they like and respect you? No, they are only interested in your money and your passport, I'm pretty sure you can find plenty of that at home already.