Try a different model. Models are improving all the time, so grab something newer. Also use a model specially trained for realism. A mixed model produces less consistent results, which can be very unsettling in a realistic style.
Change up your prompt, include details about the features, that your chosen model tends to get lazy with. Even something as simple as "nice skin" can go a long way in making her less plastic looking.
Try a different model. Models are improving all the time, so grab something newer. Also use a model specially trained for realism. A mixed model produces less consistent results, which can be very unsettling in a realistic style.
Change up your prompt, include details about the features, that your chosen model tends to get lazy with. Even something as simple as "nice skin" can go a long way in making her less plastic looking.