returns him to you as a lobotomized idiot.

Not quite. They don't return just stupid, that would imply the system is just performing poorly.

They return as the perfect naive targets for predatory women. The system is working perfectly for those who run it.

There's a catch-22 in fixing it - men don't want to teach young kids because of pedo allegations, but if you let women do it, they turn out nothing but soft targets for the sisterhood.