I like how this can be summed up as "We have pilpulled and kvetched since the 80's and have determined that you cannot live in a high trust society because that is mean to people who will never appreciate it - or rather, all the people we invited who are virtually incompatible with you and your values. No identity for you, goy."

This is what happens when you ask Mr. Shmulevitz Goldstein permission to be white.