No offense taken. There are a lot of great masculine/"manly" traits and I'm happy to have them.

And I agree 100% with your last point. I guess another "manly" trait I have is the want to be successful, or rightly fail, due to my own merits, not my sex. Any other treatment is condescending. Honestly the fact that's what modern feminists seem to want seems completely against the whole spirit of the original intent but I'm no expert on any of that.