Are there any lists that have been compiled of decent alternatives? I know about Bongino's payment processor, but I'm not sure it looks super-robust or well thought out.
Also, can Cloudflare be trusted? They seem to be much more committed to free speech than everyone else, but there are some worrying signs. My site shouldn't be super-controversial, but I certainly don't trust it with Stripe or DO these days.
Yep, agree on all fronts. Unfortunately crypto won't be viable for me at this point (although I'll accept it) because the audience is mostly normies.
Regarding Stripe, do you know by chance if Stripe cancels you, do they allow you to migrate saved cards to a new vendor, or do they just cut you loose, forcing you to have all of your customers re-enter their card data?:
https://stripe.com/docs/saving-cards
https://stripe.com/docs/security/data-migrations/exports
It seems almost vindictive if they treat you more harshly than a dissatisfied customer moving to one of their competitors, but I bet you they wouldn't be in a huge rush to transfer the data.