I've always thought that starting a family would be inevitable because that's what happened with my parents and their parents etc. But given current events (and honestly events that happened before my mom popped me out), trying to start a normal family free from the leftists' tentacles is near impossible. It seems that the only way to start (and maintain) a nuclear family right now in the US is to:
- Play along with leftist propaganda and play to the whims of your lefty wife else she takes more than the kids.
- Become a tradcuck, convert to christianity, move to the rural part of a red state. And both options still leave you vulnerable to the state courts if she wants to divorce for any reason.
Personally, I still want to entertain the idea of a wife and kids. Maybe it's just human nature that I am in denial and MGTOW is the way to go for generations to come. It also doesn't help that I'm currently stuck in Commiefornia where lockdowns are still a thing and everyone I know drank the Democratic kool-aid. So my irl options are limited. I also don't want to use online dating as pretty sure 99% that I am going to match someone who will be a lefty believer. I'm curious what this sub thinks on this topic as it seems that there is mix of MGTOWs and those who are married and have kids.
No, but you probably have to make an effort to surround yourself with people who have the mentality and values you'd want. Don't force it, but massage your situation into a better prospect.
If your life includes lots of healthy women in them, and you're demonstrably healthy and productive yourself, your chances of settling down with one of those women increases a lot in short time. Figure out how to put yourself in that scenario, and you're off to the races.
For example, think about how often you've heard of a doctor being married to another doctor. People tend to get involved with others who are inside the group of people they interact with often. Madonna married her fitness instructor, as another example. Repeated interaction makes for sparks. Just make sure you don't have losers in your life when they start flying.
Note: This carries over to your future kids as well. Want them to marry up? When the time is right, make sure they're frequenting places where they'll interact with others above their pay grade, so to speak. Nature takes care of the rest.