Remember when you're being told to "kill your enemies with kindness?" Well, fuck that. Remember when you're being lectured on how to deal with them is through "logic and reason"? Fuck that shit. Remember when you're being told that "ethics" will get them straightened up? Well, screw that.
You really want to gain ground against the deranged Marxists? Start packing and stop playing nice. Playing the optics game didn't work then, it won't work now and will not work in the future. They got their way through intimidation and force. Why should we not do the same?
I agree with some of your sentiments. There is no way to talk our way out of this crisis. It is equally unlikely to convince a majority of leftists that their ideas are wrong and that ours are correct. We're well past that point. I share your anger and frustration as well.
That said, violence should always be the last option. If our ideas and culture are truly superior, then we have to prove it. We have to live by our principles, regardless of the cost. That means not stooping to their level. Not convenient or easy to swallow but that is the price of being right.
Besides, there are other ways to fight this right now. Refuse your enemy support. Don't do business with companies that support leftist/communist causes. Close all your leftist social media accounts. Don't look at Twitter. Don't (re)post Tweets. If they want to be heard, they will have to come to us. Pull your money out of the stock market. Invest in crypto and physical PM's.
And don't give a cent to these companies: https://archive.is/oeorU
Offering them flowers while they have their guns pointed at us isn't a way to win this. Either you have to be fiercer against them or lose it altogether. I choose to be intense against them.