I think you're going way too far overboard, especially when comparing it to 'getting a finger cut off'.

I'm not even sure your hypothetical is correct. Like someone else here said, if you agree to the genie, that's not rape. Rape is something that occurs unexpected in a way that makes victims never feel safe and give them PTSD.

If you think that there is too much focus on rape because women are mostly the victim, you may want to consider that you go the other way for the same reason.

I think you're going way too far overboard, especially when comparing it to 'getting a finger cut off'.