A common complaint from women is that you are somehow the cause of all of their emotions. So if they fantasize about being brutally raped, that's your fault and you're basically raping them. Fights over "I dreamt you cheated on me" are a common occurrence.

A common complaint from women is that you are somehow the cause of all of their emotions. So if they fantasize about being brutally raped, that's your fault and you're basically raping them.