In a similar position and have many friends that are the same. The point of marriage was supposed to be to start a family and have a life partner in doing so. If someone’s not willing to have kids, or more often now as well, not willing to be a life partner in any meaningfully helpful way, I don’t see the point. Women offer children, companionship, and helping out in domestic and financial ways. If they don’t want children, don’t want to help out domestically or financially or at all really, and are basically only having sex and hanging out with you, there is nothing to be gained in marriage for a man but increasing his financial risks immensely.

If all a girl wants to do with you indefinitely is have sex and hang out and not even help with anything, it’d make more sense to eventually find another girl or just have sex with more girls if you yourself didn’t want kids or something. I can see marriage with a life partner that helps and contributes and you love and all that even sans kids because you both don’t want them or can’t have them, but very few girls past 30 like that even exist anymore. Or under 30.

I have one super duper hot female model friend past 40 that’s dating some rich top 1-5% type of guy I know that works his ass off and hustles with stressful, high risk 80 hour weeks. She doesn’t want kids, doesn’t really contribute anything but her vagina, he pays for everything as she lives rent free in a mansion, and is basically just his personal porn star in her words. She really wants marriage but he doesn’t and even got snipped recently so she can’t oops baby him. She at least eventually resigned herself to that because she’s not going to do any better, but I know him and he’d easily have just wifed her if she wanted a family or to have kids or something. She’s continually drugged out on pharma meds for anxiety and depression issues that I think are just her having failed to have kids, despite living in a little mansion and having not one worry or care in the world otherwise. We’re friends so I’ve tried telling her to just have kids and all that since before she was past 40, but she couldn’t stand anything getting in the way of her partying and drinking it seems. A lot of fun to know and be around, 11/10 to look at, one of the top bods and even personalities on the planet probably, and even then she can’t get anyone decent to wife her without her having kids.

In a similar position and have many friends that are the same. The point of marriage was supposed to be to start a family and have a life partner in doing so. If someone’s not willing to have kids, or more often now as well, not willing to be a life partner in any meaningfully helpful way, I don’t see the point. Women offer children, companionship, and helping out in domestic and financial ways. If they don’t want children, don’t want to help out domestically or financially or at all really, and are basically only having sex and hanging out with you, there is nothing to be gained in marriage for a man but increasing his financial risks immensely.

If all a girl wants to do with you indefinitely is have sex and hang out and not even help with anything, it’d make more sense to eventually find another girl or just have sex with more girls if you yourself didn’t want kids or something. I can see marriage with a life partner that helps and contributes and you love and all that even sans kids because you both don’t want them or can’t have them, but very few girls past 30 like that even exist anymore. Or under 30.

I have one super duper hot female model friend past 40 that’s dating some rich top 1-5% type of guy I know that works his ass off and hustles with stressful, high risk 80 hour weeks. She doesn’t want kids, doesn’t really contribute anything but her vagina, he pays for everything as she lives rent free in a mansion, and is basically just his personal porn star in her words. She really wants marriage but he doesn’t and even got snipped recently so she can’t oops baby him. She at least eventually resigned herself to that because she’s not going to do any better, but I know him and he’d easily have just wifed her if she wanted a family or to have kids or something. She’s continually drugged out on pharma meds for anxiety and depression issues that I think are just her having failed to have kids, despite living in a little mansion and having not one worry or care in the world otherwise. We’re friends so I’ve tried telling her to just have kids and all that since before she was past 40, but she couldn’t stand anything getting in the way of her partying and drinking it seems. A lot of fun to know and be around, 11/10 to look at, one of the top bods and ever personalities on the planet probably, and even then she can’t get anyone decent to wife her without her having kids.