Having a personality above simpering weasel doesn't hurt either...

Edit: in case anyone reads this later, I'm just gonna clarify. I wasn't calling anyone specific a weasel, I'm just saying that a lot of men take the "kiss ass" approach to women, which can be a major turn off, as, if the woman in question is even remotely attractive, she's all too familiar with the type. Be interesting, be funny, be challenging, but don't pucker up the minute you see a woman you wanna bang and tell her everything you think she wants to hear.

Having a personality above simpering weasel doesn't hurt either...