Almost all the guys I grew up with had a moment in their 20s when they realized the only options for "pleasing" women needed them to banish their own personal restraints and disgust and actively treat them like shit in bed, or else should would be dissatisfied and go find a new guy. Some took to this a little too well, others struggled with it incredibly.
So its once again the never ending cycle of "women train men to be shittier, surprised when men treat them like shit."
Almost all the guys I grew up with had a moment in their 20s when they realized the two options for "pleasing" women needed them to banish their own personal restraints and disgust and actively treat them like shit in bed, or else should would be dissatisfied and go find a new guy. Some took to this a little too well, others struggled with it incredibly.
So its once again the never ending cycle of "women train men to be shittier, surprised when men treat them like shit."