It is bad with many factors coming together to make the situation horrible. I mean it was hard then (20 years ago) but it seems impossible now. Here are some problems that I didn’t have to deal with:

1. Online dating was in its infancy & largely looked down upon for only the most desperate.

2. Cost of living was way lower so the cost of going out was negligible.

3. Women were still largely traditional as in they aren’t super liberals complaining where all the good men went.

4. Women’s expectations weren’t retarded like it is now. I mean they were creeping up sure, but the whole 666 (feet, figures, inches) was NOT standard.

5. Starting a new life was easier and owning property was doable.

6. Most importantly men & women were actively seeking each other out.

7. Bullshit like “monkey branching” would have easily been considered cheating.

8. Being a single mom was looked down upon. Especially with interracial kids.

9. White men were largely not under attack by society, so there was no perception of danger or prejudice.

10. Pre-social media; you had to have social chops. The more social you were the better off you be.

11. Likewise, introverts had to drag their asses out too to socialize too. This was better for everyone.

It is bad with many factors coming together to make the situation horrible. I mean it was hard then (20 years ago) but it seems impossible now. Here are some problems that I didn’t have to deal with:

1. Online dating was in its infancy & largely looked down upon for only the most desperate.

2. Cost of living was way lower so the cost of going out was negligible.

3. Women were still largely traditional as in they aren’t super liberals complaining where all the good men went.

4. Women’s expectations weren’t retarded like it is now. I mean they were creeping up sure, but the whole 666 (feet, figures, feet) was NOT standard.

5. Starting a new life was easier and owning property was doable.

6. Most importantly men & women were actively seeking each other out.

7. Bullshit like “monkey branching” would have easily been considered cheating.

8. Being a single mom was looked down upon. Especially with interracial kids.

9. White men were largely not under attack by society, so there was no perception of danger or prejudice.

10. Pre-social media; you had to have social chops. The more social you were the better off you be.

11. Likewise, introverts had to drag their asses out too to socialize too. This was better for everyone.