It sucks, but I kind of see this as a massive correction. A "deflationary pressure" on romantic relationships.

I'm not saying it's a good thing, but it's a reaction to something totally unsustainable. Men are choosing to have less sex because of bad mate choice, emotional underdevelopment, and financial insecurity.

It sucks, but consider what would happen if they were engaged in relationships and having sex. You'd be getting tons of children out of wedlock, broken homes, broken families, and broken communities. The situation would actually be worse at a societal level as the children of broken homes pour out onto the streets and start killing the civilization they are mired in.

It's like a woman saying she "never wants to have kids" and "will absolutely get an abortion". That's not a woman you ever want having kids. She is going to feel personally attacked by her own children. She'll get her abortion one way or another. These men & women who aren't having sex are probably right about their self-assessment, and they will have to do something about it on their own time to make progress. No one can really help them but themselves, and all we can do is try to promote healthy behaviors to fix yourself.

How did they get this way? It's a moot point now, but the social engineering efforts of the Left over the past 70 years to destroy families, communities, and relationships between men and women. Additionally the fact that the understanding of relationships was so innate to the Greatest Generation that they didn't explain it to the Boomers, and the Gen X was taught not to give a shit. Hence, Millennials and Zoomers have no living role models for relationships. That's why this shit is so fucking alien to us. It's not bad acting, it's that the world the Boomers grew up in is long dead, and the people have so fundamentally changed that (although it's good advice), it's effectively impossible to translate.

It sucks, but I kind of see this as a massive correction. A "deflationary pressure" on romantic relationships.

I'm not saying it's a good thing, but it's a reaction to something totally unsustainable. Men are choosing to have less sex because of bad mate choice, emotional underdevelopment, and financial insecurity.

It sucks, but consider what would happen if they were engaged in relationships and having sex. You'd be getting tons of children out of wedlock, broken homes, broken families, and broken communities. The situation would actually be worse at a societal level as the children of broken homes pour out onto the streets and start killing the civilization they are mired in.

It's like a woman saying she "never wants to have kids" and "will absolutely get an abortion". That's not a woman you ever want having kids. She is going to feel personally attacked by her own children. She'll get her abortion one way or another. These men & women who aren't having sex are probably right about their self-assessment, and they will have to do something about it on their own time to make progress. No one can really help them but themselves, and all we can do is try to promote healthy behaviors to fix yourself.