Incel is a very elastic term that changes to fit the agenda of whoever is using the label. I personally only take the label seriously when someone uses it to self identify. The feminists use it to slur anyone who doesn't buy into their bullshit. I've seen them use it to slur guys who complain about the state of the dating market even if they're perfectly capable of getting laid. They really like calling red pillers and MGTOW guys incels to slur them, even though those guys have gotten laid in the past and are often presently getting laid. They're desperately trying to shut down talk of how the game rigged against the average guy.

Incel is a very elastic term that changes to fit the agenda of whoever is using the label. I personally only take the label seriously when someone uses it to self identify. The feminists use it to slur anyone who doesn't buy into their bullshit. I've them use it to slur guys who complain about the state of the dating market even if they're perfectly capable of getting laid. They really like calling red pillers and MGTOW guys incels to slur them, even though those guys have gotten laid in the past and are often presently getting laid. They're desperately trying to shut down talk of how the game rigged against the average guy.