Yes, that is exactly it. It makes more sense when you look at it at the level that feminists actually make that decision from: male sexuality is evil and wrong, and female sexuality is empowering and good. All their arguments using other words are actually just post-hoc justifications for this fundamental belief, which is why those arguments are so often contradictory. If a man enjoys looking at a woman in a bikini, it's bad, but if a woman wants to wear a bikini, it's good. Unless she's doing it for a man, then it's bad again. So yes, a woman having sex with a lot of men is empowering, a man having sex with a lot of women is abusive. A man talking about how he likes having sex is disgusting, a woman talking about how she likes having sex is high art.

This is how you can make sense of their attitude on fictional women, too. Fictional woman in a game or comic or movie who's attractive? It must be for men, so it's sexist, even though there's no actual woman to be 'abused', and it may have been a woman who created the character in the first place. Actual woman trying to wear a bikini to work at the office or something? That's empowering and good. It all falls into place when you just realize what their actual thought process is.

Yes, that is exactly it. It makes more sense when you look at it at the level that feminists actually make that decision from: male sexuality is evil and wrong, and female sexuality is empowering and good. All their arguments using other words are actually just post-hoc justifications for this fundamental belief, which is why those arguments are so often contradictory. If a man enjoys looking at a woman in a bikini, it's bad, but if a woman wants to wear a bikini, it's good. Unless she's doing it for a man, then it's bad again. So yes, a woman having sex with a lot of men is empowering, a man having sex with a lot of women is abusive. A man talking about how he likes having sex is disgusting, a woman talking about how she likes having sex is high art.

This is how you can make sense of their attitude on fictional women, too. Fictional woman in a game or comic or movie who's attractive? It must be for men, so it's sexist, even though it's not an actual woman, and it may have been a woman who created the character. Actual woman trying to wear a bikini to the work at the office or something? That's empowering and good. It all falls into place when you just realize what their actual thought process is.