It's totally a thing among normal boys and men.

I always had trouble relating with how other guys would behave when we were among eachothers. How they would talk shit at eachothers and laugh. Constantly.

Could be extremely vulgar at times, but it wasen't random ( I don't know how to explain. the phrasing? tone? the non-verbal cues? ). Like how there is a clear difference between boys playing rough and boys having a fight?

Any temper lost was quickly regained with no grudge.

At work, I see older men who are friends still do that.

I can't do that, but can tell when coworkers are trying to ''play'' that way with me too and it's just akward. It's obvious they're just doing that, not being jerk. Just including me in it but it dosen't work.

P.S. : I did experience that socialisation, but never got over the ''everything is a brick'' when directly involved. Initially it got me alot of (deserved) shit because well, I ''responded with bricks'', but later I stuck with ''if I have nothing nice to say I'll just shut up'' and made friends again.

Always found it interesting to see my friends do the insult-the-shit-out-of-eachothers.

It's totally a thing among normal boys and men.

I always had trouble relating with how other guys would behave when we were among eachothers. How they would talk shit at eachothers and laugh. Constantly.

Could be extremely vulgar at times, but it wasen't random ( I don't know how to explain. the phrasing? tone? the non-verbal cues? ). Like how there is a clear difference between boys playing rough and boys having a fight?

Any temper lost was quickly regained with no grudge.

At work, I see older men who are friends still do that.

I can't do that, but can tell when coworkers are trying to ''play'' that way with me too and it's just akward. It's obvious they're just doing that, not being jerk. Just including me in it but it dosen't work.

P.S. : I did experience that socialisation, but never got over the ''everything is a brick'' when directly involved.

Always found it interesting to see my friends do the insult-the-shit-out-of-eachothers.