I do not want to influence anyone, however getting married and having kids changed me a lot. I had 0 ambition, used to play computer games all day, I would postpone everything to the last moment, I was growing more and more depressed.

I got married and it changed my life. I started being more ambitious, my work ethic improved, I started having hobbies where I build things, my responsibilities have grown and I am a lot happier with how I am. I even gotten in shape. The reason for my change is not natural, it was hard for me to change but I did it so I can be a better husband and a father that the kids can be proud of.

I fully know that tomorrow or the day after my wife may go thru some crisis and take my kids and my house away from me. I have no illusion that this entire part of my life may crush and burn and leave me an empty husk of a human being.

I also know that my wife would probably leave me if I got fired and if she was to make more then me our relationship would not be a pleasant one.

But until that happens I plan to enjoy my life and I do feel like I was an overgrown child until I got married. I do not even know why my current wife even took a chance with me.

I do not want to influence anyone, however getting married and having kids changed me a lot. I had 0 ambition, used to play computer games all day, I would postpone everything to the last moment, I was growing more and more depressed.

I got married and it changed my life. I started being more ambitious, my work ethic improved, I started having hobbies where I build things, my responsibilities have grown and I am a lot happier with how I am. I even gotten in shape. The reason for my change is not natural, it was hard for me to change but I did it so I can be a better husband and a father that the kids can be proud of.

I fully know that tomorrow or the day after my wife may go thru some crisis and take my kids and my house away from me. I have no illusion that this entire part of my life may crush and burn and leave me an empty husk of a human being.

I also know that my wife would probably leave me if I got fired and if she was to make more then me our relationship would not be a pleasant one.

But until that happens I plan to enjoy my life and I do feel like I was an overgrown child until I got married. I do not even know what my current wife even took a chance with me.