Yes, well said. When it comes to physical appearance, I actually have very low standards. Sometimes I can tell people I know think I'm dating below my league and it comes out in the way in which people I know act or subtle comments. It's usually the women too who seem to not approve of me dating down on the physical attraction scale, not the men who care.
For me the big thing is just having a woman who can just be quiet (way too many women seem to need to be vocal, challenging and opinionated over everything). I prefer quiet, shy and just not challenging women. Women that will say "ok" and move on, not always trying to show off how smart and capable they are, especially when they aren't. I also find many just so emotionally needy over problems they create for themselves. One of my biggest pet peeves is working women who complain about their work. Just stop working. I don't even like women to work so being with a woman who works and complains about her work when I don't even want her to work is just like wtf... I don't want to deal with her imparting her stress of working onto me when I don't even see value in her working.
I honestly don't think my standards are high at all, it's just few women actually meet them. It's REALLY REALLY REALLY easy to meet my standards but women don't want to be what men find attractive. If women don't want to be what men find attractive then you can't be mad when men don't find you attractive. Imagine if a company that was selling a product did some research and determined the customers of the product preferred red over blue so the company was like well fuck the customers, we're going to go with blue instead. Then the company complains about the lack of sales? Uhhh....
Yes, well said. When it comes to physical appearance, I actually have very low standards. Sometimes I can tell people I know think I'm dating below my league and it comes out in the way in which people I know act or subtle comments. It's usually the women too who seem to not approve of me dating down on the physical attraction scale, not the men who care.
For me the big thing is just having a woman who can just be quiet (way too many women seem to need to be vocal, challenging and opinionated over everything). I prefer quiet, shy and just not challenging women. Women that will say "ok" and move on, not always trying to show off how smart and capable they are, especially when they aren't. I also find many just so emotionally needy over problems they create for themselves. One of my biggest pet peeves is working women who complain about their work. Just stop working. I don't even like women to work so being with a woman who works and complains about her work when I don't even want her to work is just like wtf... I don't want to deal with her imparting her stress of working onto me when I don't even see value in her working.
I honestly don't think my standards are high at all, it's just few women actually meet them. It's REALLY REALLY REALLY easy to meet my standards but women don't want to be what men find attractive.