I assume you're not refering to Norah Vincent's "Self-Made Man" book, because she wasen't bitching against men and patriarchy for her struggle trying to seduce women or discovering males playing bowling aren't actually badmouthing their wives the whole time.

I can't find the gem of the story about the lesbian "transitioning" to discover male privilege dosen't exist while lamenting losing her female privileges.

Stuff like when she could get mistaken for a guy, nobody carrrying her bags for her at the train station because she packed too much stuff for her capacities.

I wonder how she could not have a moment of self-awareness re-reading that part of her article and realize it was quintessencially womanly of her and that. That while female privilege is very much a thing throughout society, male privilege rarely exists.

Usually it's feminists mistaking merit or nepotism + their jealous and female in-group bias when they see a man doing well, and reframing that as an injustice that demands reparations to their exclusive benefit.

I assume you're not refering to Norah Vincent's "Self-Made Man" book, because she wasen't bitching against men and patriarchy for her struggle trying to seduce women or discovering males playing bowling aren't actually badmouthing their wives the whole time.

I can't find the gem of the story about the lesbian "transitioning" to discover male privilege dosen't exist while lamenting losing her female privileges.

Stuff like when she could get mistaken for a guy, nobody carrrying her bags for her at the train station because Ishe packed too much stuff* for her capacities.

I wonder how she could not have a moment of self-awareness re-reading that part of her article and realize it was quintessencially womanly of her and that. That while female privilege is very much a thing throughout society, male privilege rarely exists.

Usually it's feminists mistaking merit or nepotism + their jealous and female in-group bias when they see a man doing well, and reframing that as an i justice that demands reparations to their exclusive benefit.