A while ago it was brought up the joyful circumstances of numerous commentors here being married or in some other form of relationship. Some even had kids.
Question for you all, how hard is it nowadays to be in one (relationship), or get in one? The red pill media has, over the years, become very black pilled and sensationalist on the subject. Granted, with ever increasing feminism and a decrease in tolerance for male behavior I have noticed it getting a lot harder out there... but ia it anywhere near as bad as they say?
While we are at it, what the hell does everyone do for fun in the real world? Prices have gone sky high in America, especially rent and housing, and over the years I have noticed less and less people go out, especially those in their 20s and 30s. I like to hike and explore so sitting at home doing nothing but play video games, read and watch tv drivers me nuts after a while. Granted, society seems less friendly and more shut in nowadays anyways. Still, there must be some clubs or whatever that people do for fun, even if not as frequently as ye olden times.
I don't think getting into a relationship is as impossible as people here (myself included) often make it out to be. Getting into a relationship that's a net positive in our lives is a different question, and if anything I think the community is too optimistic about that. I'm in the same position I think a lot of men are: If I jumped through enough hoops and dived deep enough in the dumpster I'm sure I could get something. The thing is she would be far below my SMV/RMV level, be a net negative in my life, and resent me for not being the gigachad that feminism taught her that she's entitled to. A woman at my level who would actually add value to my life is unobtainable, and she doesn't even become a possibility until she's 35+ and ran through by every Chad and Tyrone within a 200 mile radius. In other words the kind of woman that would be worth the time and effort it takes to deal with the radioactive minefield that feminism has turned dating into isn't going to be the end result of all the crap you have to put up with. I also want to live alone and don't desire children, so that saps a major motivation for dating that I would otherwise have.