I am Christian and married myself, though I absolutely understand why many men would avoid that lifestyle these days. Marrying the wrong person is a cheat code to ruining your life and there are a lot more wrong people out there than right people.
Even there you can have some crazy, fanatical women. The one girl my son dated, specifically, through the Church came at him with a knife over something trivial.
Wow that's crazy, but unfortunately not that surprising. We're all immersed in modernity, and women are particularly susceptible to the influences that seem to drive them insane. I hope your son didn't get too emotionally scarred by that whole fiasco.
Nope not scarred by that, but scarred by the the girl he met on an adult dating site who lied that she was 18 and was actually 14 yr. He went to jail and suffered for years simply because a girl lied about her age. There is all kinds of proof, to include the girls confession that he was entrapped, but the laws (written by the Devil) require men to be omniscient and know the truth regardless of what they're told.
I have a more detailed post in this thread, but church actively makes it impossible to date as a single man in favor of married men picking up a side chick.
I am Christian and married myself, though I absolutely understand why many men would avoid that lifestyle these days. Marrying the wrong person is a cheat code to ruining your life and there are a lot more wrong people out there than right people.
Church really is the last reliable place to find decent women. If I hadn't found my wife there I really have no idea where I'd even begin to look.
Even there you can have some crazy, fanatical women. The one girl my son dated, specifically, through the Church came at him with a knife over something trivial.
Wow that's crazy, but unfortunately not that surprising. We're all immersed in modernity, and women are particularly susceptible to the influences that seem to drive them insane. I hope your son didn't get too emotionally scarred by that whole fiasco.
Nope not scarred by that, but scarred by the the girl he met on an adult dating site who lied that she was 18 and was actually 14 yr. He went to jail and suffered for years simply because a girl lied about her age. There is all kinds of proof, to include the girls confession that he was entrapped, but the laws (written by the Devil) require men to be omniscient and know the truth regardless of what they're told.
I have a more detailed post in this thread, but church actively makes it impossible to date as a single man in favor of married men picking up a side chick.