Is the easiest time in history to have kids and yet we are having less kids then ever.
Do not get me wrong, is ok to have kids only if you want them and not do to social pressure. But we are in a time where the social pressure is to not have kids, this is wrong as well.
You end up with a lot of depressed 30+ women and men that never grow up.
It's the internal change that fatherhood forces. Caring for your children moves you further along the path from 'boy' to 'man.' Having to father a child invokes manhood as steward and warden. You care about the world more, because your children inherit it. Your focus ceases to be entirely self-centered because you are invested in your children's success: father to son, in a chain that lasts past your own life.
Fatherhood is literal Patriarchy, and is one of the things Feminists want to destroy. The fact that you're speaking against it is deeply ironic.
Is the easiest time in history to have kids and yet we are having less kids then ever.
Do not get me wrong, is ok to have kids only if you want them and not do to social pressure. But we are in a time where the social pressure is to not have kids, this is wrong as well.
You're not more mature because you sold your soul to a woman so she would shit out kids for you for a couple of years before taking her cut.
It's not about the woman.
It's the internal change that fatherhood forces. Caring for your children moves you further along the path from 'boy' to 'man.' Having to father a child invokes manhood as steward and warden. You care about the world more, because your children inherit it. Your focus ceases to be entirely self-centered because you are invested in your children's success: father to son, in a chain that lasts past your own life.
Fatherhood is literal Patriarchy, and is one of the things Feminists want to destroy. The fact that you're speaking against it is deeply ironic.